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Can We Trust Him?

Was It real for us when we get here?

The Walk of Faith.

Did we know him and what He has done for us all this past year, or are we looking at the lack or hurts that can be valid or invalid because we are scared to trust HIM more. How do we see the future? Is it a joy because it is a TRUE REWARD OF HIM! “To him who overcomes I will give to eat of the tree of Life.”

Revelation 2:7 (New King James Version)
7 “He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To him who overcomes I will give to eat from the tree of life, which is in the midst of the Paradise of God.”’

Not I give you life first then overcome. Yes, he does give us His New Birth but then we’ve got to see HOW REAL THIS IS SO IT BECOMES REAL TO US just not a story. But it becomes a fruit in us in areas that we must overcome because we got real with the “issues of Life” that come our way or that God Calls us to. Is that peace and joy, can we really remember the fellowship the intimate joy of HIM and HIS WORD becoming real IN US and in our Lives. Are you really serving Him or you? Can you really spend time with HIM and get to know how HE wants to care?

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We tend to always see a King Born and 3 wise men bringing Gold and other things for Honor. But lets see, How This GOD sent HIS SON, Stripped Himself of Glory and was born of teen woman and a young man who had to deal with the issue, they had to live in their own home town, you think people might have wanted to talk about her getting pregnant out of wedlock. And still God is working in them, they had to chose even when the enemy came to kill them from the time of the manger to when the wise men came – most scholars probably believe that it was more than three wise men, they had just three kinds of gifts, The scripture never says three wise men. And from the time of the manger to the wise men finding the “child” not a babe in a “house” was probably about 2 years. What issues did they have to face, even though they had comfort from very, very few people? Think about this in the reality of the Jewish Culture. The stigma and life they had to live to overcome in life. But they believed the Word that was given, Mary loved her husband, and he was a “righteous man” and he believed her because he had visitations too and they overcame together trusting in Their GOD. They Overcome reality by a King stripping Himself of Glory and coming into a teen woman and young man, humbling himself to the reticule of our idea to save. He became like the lost hurt people, He dealt with reality so He could overcome it and with the people HE saves. He teaches us of humbleness that who would ever think of a GOD to be HUMBLE!!!!!!!!!!!

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The Angels appeared to Shepard’s out in the cold at night, in the culture of that time they were at a very low esteem in life, probably close to being a heathen. The Angels appeared to them not to men of good report much less kings, the wise men weren’t of the “CULTURE” of the right men of religious way. Do we have an awe of a God that would save our Kids and us? Can we enjoy the KING of GLORY who really does saves us from our pride, hate, envy, covet ness. Or is everything a Trophy!!! Can we see how a child was born in this and became a man, he had to suffer as a child and man, “tempted in all points” the word says and overcame as a man, a SON OF GOD to save us and give us the joys we do know!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Faith is a journey, can you really walk with HIM in it!

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Prayer

IT DOESN’T MATTER THAT MUCH WHAT YOU KNOW.
You can know all the word and ways of God but without honesty, not bribing prayer, we get nothing, the enemy or our sin will win.
Mark 11:16-18 (New King James Version)
16 And He would not allow anyone to carry wares through the temple. 17 Then He taught, saying to them, “Is it not written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer for all nations’? But you have made it a ‘den of thieves.’ ”
18 And the scribes and chief priests heard it and sought how they might destroy Him; for they feared Him, because all the people were astonished at His teaching.
What are we trying to sell God, are we flippantly sacrificing common things to him like we are shopping? Do we really do that even though we don’t believe it? Examine ourselves.

What is down-to-earth, HONEST prayer between you and God not the other guy and what you want for him, or even from God, good or bad?

Do we have our own nation, a prejudice against this set of people or that one, this denomination or that one, is it men or women, political sets. Is it a sin that we hate, not necessarily our own, that keeps us judging-so we are bitter. You’ve got to get rid of all that. He says His House will be a house of prayer for all nations. What kind of heart do you have for God to move and Save yourself and others, and too bless?

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John 2:16 (New King James Version)
16 And He said to those who sold doves, “Take these things away! Do not make My Father’s house a house of merchandise!”
Are we trying to sell God something or buy something from the people that accurately is supposed to be use in the offering? But it’s just too flippant, not real heart meaning, not purchased right. It looks like the purchase is raised higher than that offering.
Genesis 4:26 (New King James Version)
26 And as for Seth, to him also a son was born, a son; and he named him Enoch. Then men began to call on the name of the LORD.
It looks like in the beginning after Cain had killed his brother and the father and mother had to deal with that, they named him Cain. They had to deal with it. They had another son Seth and they trained him. Adam and Eve must have learned to call on the name of God and started teaching Seth because He taught his son and men began to call on the name of the Lord. Not just bribe God to get something.

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Psalm 18:1-3 (New King James Version)
To the Chief Musician: A Psalm of David the servant of the LORD, who spoke to the LORD the words of this song on the day that the LORD delivered him from the hand of all his enemies and from the hand of Saul. And he said:
1 I will love You, O LORD, my strength.
2 The LORD is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer;
My God, my strength, in whom I will trust;
My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
3 I will call upon the LORD, Who is worthy to be praised;
So shall I be saved from my enemies—my hatred, my lust, my self-righteousness.
Real prayer is where power is wrought and great things are accomplished in the earth. The enemy or sin is defeated in praying or power to defeat them is obtained. Prayer is the place where GOD rules and not us and our wants. It is how you will be empowered and the word of GOD in you come alive for you and you family, your ministry, your job. The person down the street that you want to help, the government that needs our help.

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Psalm 145:18-21 (New King James Version)
18 The LORD is near to all who call upon Him,
To all who call upon Him in truth.
19 He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him;
He also will hear their cry and save them.
20 The LORD preserves all who love Him,
But all the wicked He will destroy.
21 My mouth shall speak the praise of the LORD,
And all flesh shall bless His holy name
Forever and ever.

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Sonship!!

This is one of the first things the church is probably supposed to teach after being born again. One of the rooted things that secures us to our Father. The bible is written to two kinds of people, there really are only two kinds of people in the earth, those lost dead spiritually, and sons of God. The Ones who have made a Mature decision to Reject Salvation We are not supposed to worry about.

So lets go to the word of God and become more of who we are supposed to be.

John 1;12-13
12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name:

God gives us a place, gave us a ‘right’ to become children of God if we truly believe in His name. The name of Jesus is supposed to contain all the character that person is and does. Now do we believe that because of HIS name we are born of God. Do we know what it means how to be born again.

13 who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.

Now, this choosing to be right doesn’t work, the blood in you doesn’t work. Just because you are hear does not give it to you. Who you are does not give it to you, You of Your Blood has no right to this. It can’t be of the will of our flesh no matter how much we want to be right…. It’s not about how I feel, or hate, or want in any area. It’s not about being born good, kinda good, I’m this or I’m that–that is not going to work. It’s about His ‘Way’ for us to choose what He has done. So HE gave us a right to choose to let HIM bring us to birth. It has to be an absolute Faith the way God says it has to be done to be born again. Repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand. When God says were not right with HIM that’s it but He gives us the ability to choose to be BORN by HIM again. And when we choose to really repent and BE BORN of GOD – then we are in the family. Not to say something so I can get away with some Sin! Some people are using what I call fire insurance salvation and they are not born again. They haven’t made a quality decision to trust God for a complete change with junk and everything in them and not about the good getting me to heaven. Good takes you to Hell in this context. You must have a Change you trust from God not from Works! We become right and live right with God not our own ideas of right and wrong. And some are self-righteous people who want to JUDGE PEOPLE. They don’t’ want to go to hell but they aren’t really born again, the same old nature really doing the same old self-righteous things maybe using good to justify themselves and judging others.

All have sinned and have fallen short of the grace of God.
If any believes in His heart and confesses with his mouth that Jesus is Lord shall be saved. Not Believing I’m going to get away from sinning but that God can Change me and I can see it all the way through and see the Change from God not self righteous acts.
When you say Lord are you trying to get away with anything????

Now If we are born again we are going to have struggles we are going to find out that this sin nature was a hiding piece of garbage that manipulates to get it’s own way whether good or bad.
But being BORN AGAIN IS THE GREATEST THING AND TO HAVE CONVICTION AND POWER FROM OUR FATHER AND THE LOVE THAT BYPASSES ALL SIN TO SAVE US AND NOT KILL US AS WE ARE TRYING TO GROW IS SO SO AMAZING!! BECAUSE WE START TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT SIN NATURE REALLY IS-BORN FROM HELL AND JUST TRYING TO LOOK GOOD.
BUT WE GROW! THIS IS A TRUE SIGN OF A SON.

BUT HERE IS A GREAT POINT A CHILD IS TO BECOME A MATURE PERSON SO YOU AS A PARENT CAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM ON A HIGHER MORE FULLER LEVEL. DEEPER AND STRONGER IN WAYS AND SUPSTANCE. ALWAYS ENJOYING CHILDREN BUT GROWING SO WE CAN ENJOYING MATURITY AND HAVING CHILDREN IN CONFIDENCE. TO BECOME A SON!!!1 IS WHAT THE FATHER IS AFTER.

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Eph 1:3-12
3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ,

How big is this verse, do you need peace not a wish. do you need a real future not a fleeting I’m trying. Do yo need love in you so you don’t judge hatefully, do you need to know and have provision in this earth. So if you don’t know how far this verse goes and others that God says how are you going to get them in your heart and know that God is going to bring something to pass.

4 just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love,

He says He can do it. Now either God is lying or HE is telling the truth and we need to spend time with HIM and change and allow what HE reveals to us to happen. Not how we want to read the scriptures but how HIS HOLY SPIRIT reveals it.
“When the spirit of truth comes He will lead and guide into all truth.”

5 having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will,

We have been set up by God to get born again and to MATURE.
PREDESTINED! set up to choose the best!!! and empowered to do it.
Now Children in the old testament were trained until they became mature enough to take over the fathers business. A child is always a child, a Son chooses to be a Son.

6 to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved.
7 In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace

We are accepted-no Guilt, shame, fear, condemnation when we go to HIM. Those are tools of the devil to keep you defeated. Sin and the enemy is going to produce wickedness, fear and condemnation to keep you bound to your sin. Shame and guilt can kill you or an area of healing and restoration that we need.
Grace, Grace, Grace is power it isn’t sloppy, it gives us ability, it is ability of and from God. That’s not our own but we get it. We get to KNOW BEING SAVED FROM SIN AND TO BEABLE TO LIVE. BY GRACE. NOT JUDGEMENT.
I HEARD THE VOICE OF JESUS SPEAK TO ME IN THE SPIRIT ONE TIME. “DON’T BE AFRAID OF ANY SIN, I’M NOT AFRAID!” That was one of the most comforting power and voices I have ever heard so far more than I can comprehend. God is eternal it is never about a lack of Grace, HE is eternal. We just get so hard we don’t or can’t choose to let HIM.

8 which He made to abound toward us in all wisdom and prudence,

We can walk whatever part out that HE is leading us to or we are dealing with it not out of a right heart of His Salvation condemning other areas to make this one area look good but we really don’t want to be Saved or Saved in that area. But it is a WALK, a WORKING out. Sometimes Faith is just believing and sometimes you have some feet work to put to it to get the outcome.

Look at some scriptures of John the Baptist
7 But when he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducee s coming to his baptism, he said to them, “Brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come? 8 Therefore bear fruits worthy of repentance, 9 and do not think to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father.’ For I say to you that God is able to raise up children to Abraham from these stones. 10 And even now the ax is laid to the root of the trees. Therefore every tree which does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.

Don’t bear any fruit you were probably lying to yourself.

Are you wondering if it grows?

Back to Eph.

9 having made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure which He purposed in Himself,
10 that in the dispensation of the fullness of the times He might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven and which are on earth—in Him.

God has one plan for HIS children, one faith one kingdom, and a kingdom has ways of doing things. HE has one Faith. HIS mystery, a big part of it is WE ARE BORN INTO A FAMILY OF GOD. WE ARE LIKE HIM IN SPIRIT AND OPERATE BY THE SAME RULES AS SONS.

11 In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will,

His will not my Want, His Life not give me this or that lets Barter God. Even though He want’s so much to show how faithful He is He has to get some hateful wants out of us.
Now if it says we have stuff then we have stuff, all different kinds of stuff: But it is from His Life not our covetousness or fear that it is higher than His Life. He has stuff for the spirit, soul, and body. God is a holistic God. All through the bible HE has been this way.

12 that we who first trusted in Christ should be to the praise of His glory.

ARE WE WILLING TO TRUST HIM SO WE CAN MATURE AND WALK IN MORE OF THIS SONSHIP – BEARING FRUIT IN EVERY AREA OF OUR LIFE. HOW DO YOU SEE YOUR CHILDREN. JUST A BUNCH OF STUFF FOR THEM OR TO BE SOMETHING AND STUFF FOR THEM.

1 John 3:1-5 emphasize vr 5
1 Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God! Therefore the world does not know us, because it did not know Him.

We can’t look at our salvation from the world view, you will be confused, hurt, mad. The world can’t comprehend us that well at all. They might catch glimmers, pieces of light but that is to draw them to be born again. When you are born again you are of a different kingdom=from heaven not earth. Now we have to learn how to live in, grow in, the new kingdom, the new being that we have become. And don’t get stuck in twala land either but Watch your heart that it doesn’t defile the Absoluteness of a Real God that does do the Miracles in Life. Keep your View from a Real God that will give you Understanding and Life of and from Heaven not earth.

2 Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.

To become more and more like HIM, as you get to know HIM and His ways, as we walk with HIM and HIS Spirit we find we are getting to know HIM more—so we become like HIM. And the Day when we will completely see HIM in fullness and that light radiate in and through all our being. We will be like HIM. Don’t be afraid of losing anything here in earth. If it is Good for You don’t you think He wants it more for you than you do?

3 And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as He is pure.

Now a real God kind of Hope is a security place that God will bring this to pass. So we cleanse ourselves in every area – because do you REALLY WANT TO BE PURE, DO YOU BELIEVE THAT THAT IS EVEN REAL? Can you Trust Him Here in this PURITY! Can you trust that it has Rewards or is it to be some isolated empty Life? What do you think if you believe in good yourself? Some areas might take some work and we might have some roller coaster rides—(been there done that and we know that that will happen once in a while) but inside we are getting ourselves clean for HIM, FOR US to know HIM. And there is joy and knowing of fruit in that area that is being produced!!!!!!!!! God is FAITHFULL

4 Whoever commits sin also commits lawlessness, and sin is lawlessness.
5 And you know that He was manifested to take away our sins, and in Him there is no sin.

So we know we are going to have some problems with sin but we see that HE is bigger than the problem and can be fully relied on to take that sin desire, nature, way of us, out of us if we persist to let HIM remake us in growth !
Someone who wants to continually stay in an area of sin-that’s a dangerous place to be!!!!

Math 12:37
37 For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”

See if you mean what you say and more than that Do you Really want God to Change you too and trust Him to do it. He will start the Process. It could be Beautiful, or Rough, or a mix but if you look it is starting to show you to trust the change and back it if it is you that has to change something or letting Him produce in you and your life. Or a mix of both ways together.
So are we going to choose to be genuine in our hearts and speak truthfully, are we really going to choose to be born again and to grow maturely or just play games with our mouths. Are we going to make some decision to quit doing wrong to spend time in prayer fellowshipping with God so He can clean and fill us with HIS salvation and study HIS Word to build us. Are we going to get rid of our fear, vindication, Godship that we want to be.

Proverbs 4:23, 18:20-21
23 Keep your heart with all diligence,
For out of it springs the issues of life.

Great men of God trusted HIM in their walk on the earth, even though they made mistakes they would turn and go father on in true repentance to make that life genuine in them and for God they really loved in the earth. They loved the Lord and trusted HIM to MAKE them clean Holy, acceptable to Himself. Can we do the same. Or are we just using fire insurance?

Proverbs 18:20-21
20 A man’s stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth; From the produce of his lips he shall be filled.
21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue,
And those who love it will eat its fruit.

Speak, make a decision for the Lord and HIS ways or for how you really want to be.

You will be tested for what you say!!!!!

Proverbs 15: 4,10
4 A wholesome tongue is a tree of life,
But perverseness in it breaks the spirit.
10 Harsh discipline is for him who forsakes the way,
And he who hates correction will die.

We learn as Sons, that correction, that my God if HE didn’t correct me I probably wouldn’t really trust HIM. And His correction even though it may seem grievous it actually produces a peace, a joy, a love, and secure salvation in us that cannot be compromised and lost. It produces beautiful fruit.
Are we going to choose to grow as Sons not just fake being born again or be born again and use it as an excuse for sin.

They are so many more good things from the lord in blessing and walking with HIM. He created life and life more abundantly. Is He lying or not. It can usually be a couple of areas of sin that have kept us from fully loving and making quality decision to trust God for His life to Us and how good it is. We become dull and blind and can’t even see the good even though we believe it because of the sin, or doubt, or fear.
But lets settle that and go ON TO SONSHIP THAT FAILTHFULL PLACE WHERE THE PROMISES COME TO LIFE FOR YOU PERSONALLY, FRUITFUL OF LOVE, OF INTEGRITY THAT IS OF THE GOD KIND NOT SELFISH KIND, MECKNESS THAT IS NOT WEAKNESS AND LEARN, HUMBLENESS SO YOU CAN HAVE A REPORE WITH GENUINE GOOD OF GOD AND RELIENCE ON HIM AND HIS WAYS. KINDNESS BECAUSE WE SEE HIS KINDNESS TO US. WE COULD GO ON AND ON AND WE ARE SUSPOSED TO GO ON AND ON AND ON. ETERNAL GOD! HOW GOOD IS THIS FRUIT THAT HE IS PRODUCING IN US. DON’T PUT THE HUMAN KIND OF END ON SOMETHINGS, YOU’LL HURT YOURSELF!!!

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If you had everything in this world you wanted; what would you do? Have you ever asked yourself that question before? Maybe you have and maybe you have not. Think about having desiring nothing ; whatever that might be, that you think would make you happy. My thought would be that life would be pretty dull in that there would be no purpose to life; it would no doubt be void.

In Life Coaching, my thoughts go to this; it is not what we do not have that makes us unhappy. It is that we do not know how to apply what we have. We are all on a course toward something but we know that having enormous amounts of money does not supply full contentment, happiness or success. If it did, there would not be so many people in so much pain in Hollywood. They have lots of money, but they cannot be contented with one woman or one man for any length of time, they adopt dozens of kids trying to prove they can be good parents, every time you turn around; someone has been arrested for a DUI. That is not the life that most of us covet, if we are honest with ourselves. The list goes on and on. You cannot buy your way into serene living…it takes looking into your soul and putting your priorities in order and starting at the top of the list working through those issues one at a time.

Do you know that the average person cannot seem to do that? I do not know why it is so hard for us humans to take a course in finding oneself and say; okay what I can do to make my life better. What am I doing partially and how can “I” fix it? I have seen people that I cared about who were helpless it seemed and they could not see that their negative attitude made their life lesssuccessful. These are the people you want to shake and say, stop doing this to yourself. A negative attitude is worse than having a aliment sometimes, because if the positive occur in their life; they tear it down immediately with the “what ifs.” We cannot life our life successfully with the what ifs or what could happen being the dominating factors in life. When I start to think a negative thought, I try to replace it with a thankful thought of what I am blessed with and ask for an ability to create within myself what I need to make things better.

Why not stop and ask yourself; what do I need to do better with what I have? Most of us could take what we have and make a few modifications in our life and live an outstanding life, if we chose to. If you do not have the perfect job; my advice is in this economy it might be better to dedicate yourself to making your job more enjoyable if at all possible. I just saw a clip on television where a lady had applied for 600 jobs and had not had an interview yet. I am not kidding. If you have a degree and a lot of credentials in the same field and there are open positions available and know you have what it take to for the new job; then it might be time to move on. A lot of times it is not the job; it is what you might not be contributing to it. If it is impossible, it is your call and a step forward is probably better than no step at all, but with caution and keeping it to yourself until you have landed the other job.

If you are unhappy in a relationship; maybe it is not the relationship you are unhappy with. It could be you are troubled with you. The only way to get happy with you is to be honest with yourself and make sure you are doing what you should be doing to make the relationship work. Especially if it is a marriage and you have children. There are exclusions to every rule when it comes to relationships. A good relationship does bring comfort and enjoyment in ones life and it is this part of life that is the most rewarding and best to keep cherished. A marriage that is successful is far more important than landing the VP job.

written by Super Writer \\ tags: happiness, Knowing self, Life, life coaching, positive

I wonder if you have ever thought about what it would be like to have a disability. Most of us take so much for granted and we are always crying in self pity when we have all of our natural endowments and we are not inadequate of accomplishing anything reasonable in life. What the mind can conceive, the mind can achieve…I believe that.

Just recently I did a little study and it amazes me that so many of us take so much of our life for granted. When I see an individual who has a true affliction I want to kick myself for being selfish and for not being more thankful. It seems that the people who have been handed an encumbrance having the knowing of how to better with their less fortune circumstances; than we know how to deal with our fully equipped life. We can see, hear, walk, feed ourselves and in fact we are mobile in every aspect of our life, yet we are not thankful. Well, not quite; oh, physically we are mobile, but somehow we have lost the conscious ability to live life to the fullest.

Let me explain my point in a little detail. When is the last time you took a walk in the forest or the garden where the calm exist; that we have been given and really looked at the exquisite creation. Were thankful you could walk, hear the birds sing, watch the squirrels’ play; see the acorns fall and the green leaves on the trees? I find myself depreciating of the leaves, (we have a Magnolia tree, so the leaves and debris fall year round to some degree) keep falling on the lawn. There are those who are less blessed in this world who would love to be able to walk outside, rack the leaves, put them in a pile and probably jump into the pile and laugh as hard as they could for doing it. I find myself in self pity sometimes for reasons that are irrational because of what I can’t do, or don’t have; without being thankful for all things that I have. I can think, study, and learn, read, walk, and run, if I had to, play, drive, and have all the benefits of a good life.

Those of us that are blessed to have all of our abilities are less fortunate it seems, than the disabled in so many ways because they know how to use their limited ability in some instances to make life bearable and here we are complaining we don’t have enough of anything. Enough of what, do we not have to give our life the energy we need to be successful? I do not think that it is about what we need; it is about not utilizing what we already have. We are born winners…yet we do not win because we are sitting on our posterior by letting someone else to do everything for them. How many teenagers in our world today know what it is to work for their allowance? How many know how important it is to be responsible spenders or conservative anything? It is all done for them, they are spoiled and do not have enough to keep them busy so they find unhealthy things to do. I am not being vindictive, if you haven’t read the statics of our youth today; you need to. I guess one could ask if we are teaching them live a lazy life. “Please get your education or you will have to work for a living.” This is what they are told sometimes; life will be harder and it surely will but there are other values to getting the proper education one needs to live a more enjoyable life. Are we being fair to them if we are encouraging them choose the easy way of life? I do not think there is a way to get ahead in life or survive in this business world, if you do not know what real performance is. Life is not about being the boss and someone else doing the work, most people generally start out at the bottom; at least where I come from you do. I worked about 14 years before I was in “charge” or management in one profession, longer when considering my full work history.

Intelligence does mean that we have our cake and eat it too. Intelligence is only the beginning of what it takes to make an impression in this world. If we do not use the ability we have been given or earned; we will lose it one way or the other. For instance, if a singer does not sing regularly, the ability to sing will eventually leave that person. One must practice their skills to become greater and benefit from their abilities and knowledge. It is not life that brings discouragement most of the time, it is not living life the way it should be lived. It is not being able to see our own frailties in whatever it is that we are doing. It is not knowing when you have not given your inimitable . You really do not need someone cheer you on; you will never make the grade if you wait for the applause of someone else. It would probably teach us all a great rebuke if we were to live for one day with a disability. We would then probably rethink our life…

written by Super Writer \\ tags: Abilities, Blessing, Capabilities, Disabilities, Life

Fear sometimes keeps an individual from doing something that could change their life for the good forever, yet it is sometimes hard to comprehend , control and overcome. One of the greatest fears is rejection. We do not want to feel rejection so sometimes we will not follow our heart because of it. We also fear deficiencies not realizing that failure is a part of life. If we had no failure, we would be at a perfect state in life and that does not exist. Adjustments in life are many and about many aspects of our life to include but not limited to; relationships, careers, personal growth, becoming a better person, changing our concept of life, spiritual growth, learning how to cope with a disabled child, letting our kids fight their own battles and many other situations in life. We could discuss this issue very extensively but we will actually touch only a couple of things in this article.

I have seen parents have fears for their children and they want them to have the best, the absolute best, meaning no hardships, no interference in life, nothing to upset them; and I am talking about grown children. If something negative happens or someone says something they feel is partisan toward them, they are ready to jump into the battle without being invited. They have never let go and they need to let the Rejection thoughts subside and change their pattern. The children are not under their watch any longer and they cannot go through their entire life trying to fight life’s battles for their children. No one can make it through life without having conflict and no one’s children merit this behavior and they are not enabling their abilities to cope with life. They will have struggles and they will have to work through them, themselves; and remember that to live in our world as it is; this is a angle of life where we learn about ourselves and others.

I am sure there is no perfect formula to prevent the fear of change or failure or the other emotions we feel. What I do know and have learned; is that when we make a decision to do something we fear; it gives us the power and capacity to do it. It is like once we make the decision and we become fully equipped to make it happen, so that means that our biggest fear is not that we can’t make it happen, but in wondering if it is the right resolve .

We could use as an example an unhappy partner needs to make a change regarding finances in the relationship. The situation is causing frustration and bickering; tearing them away inside and it has to be stopped. The guilty spouse is simply spending loads of money depleting their saving and being wasteful. The not guilty party is trying to be consistent and fears that the guilty party is being selfish yet knows this can’t be said; so they let it go. Where and how it is going to be fixed must be decided and acted upon.

First decision needed is to attack the fear of talking about the issue with the guilty one which appears to be biggest issue. Being afraid it will only make things worse and be of no advantage, does not make it go away. So if it is not resolved, it will become more intense and harder to repair. What exist sometimes is the attitude and the method used to confront an issue of this nature and then sometimes it doesn’t matter how it is confronted; it doesn’t work. That is when an intervention of professional help could be necessary in a situation like this. It may be easy to work through but if you don’t try, you will not know and this stands true with any given change in ones life. We have to begin before we can resolve. We have to see the need to change before we take action, but we must take action. Once we see the need and let go of the fear we can find an recourse that may work. There is nothing in life that can’t be resolved with some kind of solution, it might not be what we desire, but not trying is the greatest failure.

written by Super Writer \\ tags: Change, failure, fear, Life, Personal Growth

Many times in our life we do not understand how to accept the difficult things in life. Sometimes we can’t determine why we are where we are and do not seem to find all the answers we need. It seems, we are in a rut with our life and we doubt ourselves and begin to wonder if we should just accept the problems and stop worrying about it, cause we have undoubtedly done something wrong. When this happens we must search our heart and soul to find the courage that is within us to travel a little further and know that things happen and are not necessarily something we have caused. We have to find a place to find rest, a time to comfort , a place of solitude and silence. It is a time to remember that we are not alone, we have not been appointed to have more difficulties than any other human. It is all about life and no one is exempt nor excluded from discouragement.

If you are wearing these shoes at the present and seem to be having, seemingly too much, don’t feel isolated. Everyone has different way of coping with the pressures of life and things we do not understand. It is at this time we should look to our soul and find that spiritual self that may be locked down and needs to be opened. I believe we all have a powerful self . We may not recognize it but to some extent we all have a place that is untouched by outward occurrences of life. If we can exactly who we are; we begin to know our soul. Of course, we choose to. There is hope if we work toward peace within and knowing we are not alone.

Sometimes it seems we have cycles in which things continues in a process of past issues. I think sometimes issues present themselves again and we don’t know how to break habitual pattern in our life. I think this is the times we try to make sure we have not traveled some negative path. For instance if we are spending to much money and we are having financial difficulties, then we need to change our habits. Anything that is destructing our personal journey, it is up to us to change it.

Sometimes we are resistant to change and our fears are related to things we need to change. We cannot make another person be what we want them to be, or make them see the need for change. Change is what we can do for ourselves.

We have so many phases of life and not all of them make us comfortable and in fact they dishearten and cause us grief. In our mortal life we have to learn to deal with the hard stuff to live a life of harmony without so much confusion. It makes our life more balanced when we learn to take one day at a time with thankfulness. We become stronger when we find the courage to accept, change and grow and know that our life is not different than others; all humans have times of agony.

written by Super Writer \\ tags: Life

What grandeur do we see in our life? What pleasantries and EXCITEMENT? From the easy soft to the lets get down with it in the fight for something we Believe is ‘GOOD’ and can you stand through the full range INBETWEEN even when we are not sure or weak? Do you have the right friends that cover those areas as YOU GROW and Build on Your MOUNTAIN? Spirit Mental ascent doesn’t work a lot of the time does it? Something had to happen or we changed one way a little or the other and we still say it is This. It’s not even though we intend it to be so.

The mountains look lonely sometimes or so Full of Light and People and IT IS GOOD. We just go, go, go, but the parts are nice but it doesn’t quite look right in some area(s). And we know we have a Right to Fellowship in All Kinds of GOOD WAYS! And we walk our ‘Paths’ and apply our Mortar and Bricks as we build on our mountain in our life, in sunshine or in snow. We can Love Good Things and They ARE RIGHT BUT THE MOTIVE OF OUR HEART MAKES THEM ‘WORK WRONG.’ investigate And there is the Mix, and in the Mix it’s not all good or not all bad. So we say it’s a good ’Mountain’. But really….. AND WE KNOW WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO OVERCOME. WE HAVE A RIGHT TO THAT ’GOOD’. WHAT ARE WE REALLY BUILDING THOUGH???????? We build on the mountain of our life. As we look out from our mountains at times —– (if we ever really dare to). What kind of glimpse do we see of the ‘REAL SCENERY’? Or will we use Fantasy to see hoping it will come true as we build. Fantasy is a part of the building process, We all know we have to grow through some stuff and not beat stuff up, people. Or ourselves. Some people get stuck in some Caves of their mountains they’ve dug and can’t get all the way out.

The light isn’t the ‘Light’ they were looking for, they blame the light in some kind of way or ‘Think they make deals with it’. Or talk, “It’s OK.” “IT’S ALL GOOD.” Because ‘WHO REALLY CAN KNOW’ how to build the most ‘BEAUTIFUL LIFE’ on a MOUNTIAIN that doesn’t really last and ‘Really all that is there is Just PIECES’. CAN WE REALLY ENJOY ‘WHAT LIFE WAS MEANT TO BE’ You hate religious ideas that clog the growth of Anything that is not EVIL===IF THERE IS A “PURE MUDERER IN BEING” if you believe that it exist without being Afraid and Mutilated in yourself. Let That SomeOne come on your Mountain and ’Speak’. Some of the paths on our mountain and the buildings we were building on it were from a Righteous judgment but we didn’t really KNOW HOW TO TRUST WHEN WE HEARD IT IS HERE!——–When Someone Came to our Mountain to Help Us Build

Believe

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written by Super Writer \\ tags: building, fake, Life, meaning, substance